Subtly Sexist Things “Woke” Men Still Do
“You look great…not like that”
Like what? Pick a lane, buddy. I can’t stand when men tell me that I look great, and then add, “Not like that.” Honestly, I didn’t think they meant like that. But also, if they’re going to specify, they’d better not give the compliment at all. By adding, “Not like that” they bring the element of “that” (aka sexual attraction) into the atmosphere. And it’s uncomfortable.