Some solid love advice I would give me 20 year old self would be love yourself first before trying to love someone else. I’m sure most of us have heard “how can you love expect someone to love you when you don’t even love yourself.” The older I get the more I realize how true that statement actually is. Self love also includes self awareness. You need to be in tune with yourself mentally, spiritually and emotionally. When you’re able to do that your partner will just add to all of the wonderful traits that make you uniquely you.