When Your Friend Is Marrying The Wrong Person
You’ll walk a fine line
But, you also don’t want to act too happy, because you want to leave yourself an opening to tell her, later, that you think this is a bad idea. If you literally throw her a parade when she announces the engagement, then she’ll be totally blindsided when you bring up your concerns later. But also, right now, as she looks at you and shows you her ring, you can’t behave tepidly. That would raise questions on her end, and you don’t feel ready to talk about your concerns just yet.