Helping A Friend Out Of A Toxic Relationship
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Julia Austin
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You have to show her the big picture
Now, you have to show her the big picture. You never said he doesn’t have his reasons for how he behaves. But you want her to zoom out. You don’t want her to ask, “Is he a bad person?” but rather to ask, “Is he perhaps bad for me?” Get her focusing not on his motives for his behavior but rather the results of them, and how they make her feel.
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