News of Cassie Ventura’s engagement to Alex Fine sent the internet into a frenzy. Not only is the singer and model expecting her first child and preparing to marry the love of her life, but she’s doing so just one year after deading her going-nowhere-fast relationship with Diddy. Cassie is among a host of celebrity women that we’ve recently witnessed reclaim their time after wasting years in trash relationships with undeserving men. One question that is constantly asked surrounding these stories of redemption is “What was her prayer?” It’s a valid question because prayer most certainly works. At the same time, it’s an oversimplification of the issue at hand. If you’re truly looking to level up like Ciara, Karrueche, Christina Milian, and Cassie, it starts with making better choices. Continue reading if you’re ready to live your best f*ckboy-free life.