The Surprising Mental Phases Of Deciding You Aren’t Having Kids

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But, that’s no reason to change my mind
All of this being said, it’s no reason to change my mind. I shouldn’t have kids as an excuse to avoid my goals and run from my fear of career failure. I shouldn’t have kids to honor my dead relatives, who thought they could rely on me to pass on the bloodline. When I say these things out loud, it’s so obvious to me that those are not good reasons to do something as major as having children.