The Surprising Mental Phases Of Deciding You Aren’t Having Kids

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Again—that’s not a good reason to have kids
The need to nurture is still not a good reason to have kids. I want to give, but I don’t want to give my whole life over to motherhood. I can find ways to be nurturing within my current life. And I have. I’ve started being more of a helper to the people who already are in my life, making sure to extend a hand when I can and take more of an active role in improving the lives of my friends and family.