10 Black Men Discuss Why They Dream Of Being Fathers One Day

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Aspiring Fathers

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Corbin Booker, 26

I’m looking forward to being a dad (eventually, not now) because I get excited about the opportunity to teach and care for my own kids one day. I think its a blessing that we get to take part in caring for new life, so I want to give it everything that I had fortune of having and more. This is the legacy that I can help shape and impact directly with my actions and behavior. I think about how independent I want my future kids to be, to be able to talk with me, understand how to respect others and assess different situations without overpowering them. I want them to know that any opportunity they want to have, they can achieve and I will support them.  Being able to love and support them isn’t a burden it’s a blessing; I’ll be staring at little mes and want nothing else but to give them everything they need to make a positive impact on the world.

I find myself not thinking about having kids, instead just loving them. I cherish the day when I’m able to be present for my kids because I remember how big it made me feel when my parents could show up for me. Just being able to love on my kids emotionally, intellectually, physically, and spiritually has me already feeling blessed for an chapter that is yet to come.

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