10 Black Men Discuss Why They Dream Of Being Fathers One Day
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Kyle Hutton, 30
When I was a toddler growing up on the Caribbean island of Trinidad, I distinctly remember idolizing my father. In a world where both fatherhood and equitable partnership seemed optional for men, he stood out as a man who devoted his life to his children. Not only was he fully present in my life, but he also made sacrifices to ensure I would achieve the early academic success that serves as the foundation for the life I enjoy today. Consequently, as I reflect on my own life, becoming a father and husband have become core life milestones I seek to attain as I enter my 30s. The ability to be fundamental in shaping the life trajectory of my son(s) and daughter(s) is both a privilege and responsibility that brings me immense joy for 3 reasons:
Legacy is important to me. I view my life as a mere chapter in the story of future, unborn Hutton generations. Being a father is essential in this journey, and I treasure the opportunity to instill some of the values that my parents taught me.
Society’s longevity depends on productive, well-meaning humans who seek to contribute in a net positive way. The role that values-driven individuals (my future children included) will play in shaping a world where humans begin to elevate others instead of isolating groups as “others”, will therefore become extremely important.
On a more personal level, I look forward to those life milestones that will inevitably bring smiles to my children’s faces as they fearlessly pursue lofty dreams that will make a difference in this world.
