Dating can become exhausting. We’ve all reached a breaking point with it when we just needed to take a break. All of those first date questions, the awkward goodnight kisses/side hugs, the high hopes, and shattered expectations. It can really drain a person. Being single for years (or decades) and trying hard to find the one can leave people feeling so tired that they give up on the idea of the one and just marry the next one who comes along. That’s one scenario when dating gets exhausting. There’s also the scenario in which someone actually has multiple long-term relationships that get really close to marriage. They live with their partners, adopt pets with them, look into buying real estate together, and possibly even get engaged…and disengaged. There is only so much of that type of disappointment a person can take. It’s no wonder many people do just settle for whomever comes along when they’re just fed up with it all. But, that’s only a brief solution that will actually cause its own larger problem later. Here are signs you’re settling for this guy because you’re just tired of dating.
You’re getting married very quickly
You’re getting married rather rapidly, and it’s not really like you to rush into things. You usually are quite methodical, take your time, and listen to your intuition. But this time, you’re engaged before many people even knew you’d met someone new.