Why You Shouldn’t Go Through His Phone, Even If You Suspect Something
It indicates a total breakdown of communication
So to that last point, if you have to rely on some physical evidence of his misdoings just to tell him you’re unhappy, then the communication has already broken down a tremendous amount in this relationship. Hopefully, if your partner loved you, you could just say, “You haven’t been meeting my needs” and that’d be enough for him to want to work on things.