Why Healing From Trauma While Dating Rarely Works
He didn’t choose you with clear eyes
This is possibly one of the hardest parts of dating someone who is recovering from trauma: he didn’t choose you with clear eyes. You may be a wonderful person and an amazing partner. But, someone who needs to heal from trauma doesn’t really know who he is—for now. He isn’t choosing you through a stable, clear lens. How could he? He isn’t in touch with his true self right now.