The 30 to 20 female to male relationship is quite an interesting one. You aren’t exactly a cougar—as far as marketing is concerned, you’re in the same demographic. Nobody bats an eyelash when they see you out in public. You don’t get those looks like, “She’s way too old for him.” Nobody thinks that. The guy isn’t so young that the 30-year-old woman feels like he’s just a boy-toy. They’ve had many of the same important experiences in life. But, a woman in her thirties is just on the cusp of being too old for a 20-year-old man. Just there. Especially since women mature much quicker than men so, a woman who is technically just five or eight years older than a man is more like 10 to 15 years older—mentally. But hey, men date younger all of the time and for good reason. There are a lot of benefits to dating someone a bit younger. And there are some annoying parts, too. Here are the pros and cons of being a 30-year-old woman dating a 20-year-old man.
Pro: The sexual stamina
Twenty-something’s have sexual stamina for days. That’s when men are at their sexual pique. Meanwhile, women tend to have a more stable sexual appetite through their thirties, forties and fifties. And can find that men in those ages “aren’t in the mood” as much.