Is Your Partner A Jerk When He Drinks?
Videotape him
You may need to make a videotape of your partner next time he’s being an angry drunk. Seeing is believing, and showing your partner this tape when he’s sober could be a huge wake-up call for him. Make sure you’re in a calm space when you do it so the evidence doesn’t lead to an argument. Remember you are seeking a behavior change and that takes time.