Two girlfriends are standing upset after relationship difficulties. (via Getty)
In all relationships, we tend to point the finger at what other people aren’t doing rather than asking ourselves how good of a wife, mother, daughter, girlfriend, co-worker, or — most important — friend we are. Sometimes we forget that, just like our romantic relationships, our friendships are a reflection of not only what we tolerate but what we give. And sometimes what we give our girls just isn’t up to par.
If your friends have been giving you the cold shoulder lately or even called you out on some of your shortcomings, don’t go on the immediate defense. Check out these signs you might actually be a bad friend (and then do better).
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You’re Too Judgmental
One of the key components of being a good friend is possessing the ability to listen, understand and accept your friends as they are. You shouldn’t place your own choices and outlooks on them, instead respect who they are without unnecessary judgement.
When you’re too judgmental it makes your friends feel hesitant to share certain aspects of their lives with you out of fear that your harsh judgement will make them feel bad about themselves. Instead, trying being a listening ear and resist the urge to let your judgements roll so freely off your tongue.
