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When will men learn that being direct is the best approach to get in a woman’s good graces? The reality is that, if a woman was already interested—or open to the idea of being interested in a man—then putting it out there that he’s interested in her is just a good thing. It won’t scare her off—she was already interested! If she is scared off, it’s because the answer was “No” in the first place. Telling a woman that you are interested in something romantic is just a win-win. You either get what you want or you learn, sooner rather than later, that you were never going to. What I can say is that, if a woman is interested in you but then you trick her and use lies to get close to her, she can become disinterested. Games are unattractive. They don’t make you seem trustworthy. Here are dishonest ways men try to get in your good graces.
Offering to be a mentor
This is truly one of the grossest and most upsetting ways because they use power to try to get sex. Most intelligent and ambitious people would take up someone’s offer to mentor them if that person were successful in the same industry. Unfortunately, some men only offer to mentor women they plan on hitting on. And once the woman takes sex off the table, the mentor takes professional help off the table.
