Why You Date Pushovers

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You have low self-esteem

Not to say that your pushover isn’t a catch, or that he was easy, but you probably can’t say he was difficult to land. He’s a pushover, after all. And when you don’t have high self-esteem, you avoid anyone who appears to be any sort of a challenge at all costs. The fear of rejection is so strong that you’d rather just be with a pushover, who agrees to date you and adore you immediately.

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