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I’ve always been turned off by men who use money to attract women. The second a man attempts, in any way, to dangle some sort of financial prize in front of me to have my attention, I completely write him off. There’s no in between there. It doesn’t matter if the guy is bragging about his celebrity connections or straight up telling me he could buy me that luxury car that just drove by: if a man tries to use money or status to gain my affection, he loses it forever. And I’ll admit that it’s because I learned the hard way that these guys…are kind of the worst. I did date a couple of men who charmed me with expensive dates, gifts, and trips. And they both turned out to be rather emotionally vapid and rather controlling (surprise). Yup. Turns out when a man gets you with money, he thinks he owns you. I understand that wealth can change a relationship, but, I can’t stand men like this. Here are ways men use money to attract women (and it’s gross).

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Buying a round for your friends

If I’ve been chatting with the guy for a while, clearly hitting it off, and I only have one or two friends with me, it’s not a big deal if he buys the round. But then there are those men who haven’t even made contact, who take care of the bill for my table of ten women. I repeat: they haven’t spoken to any of us yet. But they clearly think we’re now theirs for the night. Sorry—we’re gonna bounce. Nobody asked for that.

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