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How are women supposed to move on after divorce? Well, there really isn’t any “supposed to” but, I’ve witnessed some pretty admirable methods, one of which being the boy toy. Or the f*&k boy. The booty call. The human attached to a dildo (okay maybe that’s taking it a bit too far—it’s more of a dildo attached to a human). I’ve known a few women who went this route after their divorce. Some people judged them. Some people said they were running from their problems or not working on themselves. But why? Men can have casual sex while working on themselves. Nobody says men need to be celibate after divorce. And, is a little physical pleasure plus an ego boost the worst thing in the world after a marriage that may have been sexless and confidence-crushing? Here is the argument for the post-divorce boy toy.
It’s nice to know you still got it
After being with someone who you felt just didn’t see you, didn’t notice how incredible you were, and didn’t have a jaw-drop moment each time you walked in the door, wouldn’t it be nice to be with someone who does make you feel that way? You kind of just need to know, after a depressing and sexless marriage, that you still got it. You can still woo, seduce, and enchant like the rest of them.
