Why Men Can’t Handle Casual Sex

November 21, 2017  |  
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Men say they’d love a casual sex situation—they say that finding a woman who just wants a physical relationship, with no strings attached and no emotional commitment, would be their dream scenario. But, when push comes to shove and one-night stand comes to two-month fling, I’ve found that a lot of guys aren’t that great at casual sex situations. The truth is that, while may think they want a casual sex setup, oftentimes, they can’t really handle or wrap their heads around the fact that women want this, too. It’s a catch-22. They want a booty call but they don’t want a woman who wants that. I’m not quite sure how they can be happy that way. Here is why men can’t really handle it when you want a pure, casual sex relationship.


They want you to want more

Men, subconsciously, want the women they sleep with to want more than just sex. I don’t know if it’s an ego thing or just that they have it in their heads that all women want relationships. But when a woman honest to goodness doesn’t want a relationship, it makes them go, “Well, hang on. Why not? I’m a catch!” Ugh. Can we not?

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