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15 Women’s Touches That Make Him Want To Move In

August 12th, 2016 - By Meg Butler
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Have you ever gone to a man’s apartment and immediately imagined the day you might move in? Women aren’t the only ones who fantasize about the day they take their relationship to the next level. And some living spaces say “home” more than others. When a man is serious about a woman, these are the things that make him realize his life needs a woman’s touch — even if he won’t immediately admit it.

He might tease you about the amount of pink in your apartment, or how much you spend on fresh flowers or wine glasses. But even if he does poke fun at these things (sometimes especially if he does) they’re the things he secretly loves about your space.

Tricks For Getting To Sleep On Hot Summer Nights

July 27th, 2016 - By Meg Butler
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Hot summer days are amazing. Hot summer nights? Not so much. Let’s just say that they can be a lot less pleasant. That unpleasantness can get worse and worse if you don’t have central air conditioning, your electricity goes out, your unit is broken, or a heat wave comes out of nowhere. But before you run up your water bill with a shower every few hours in your desperate search for a break, know your options.

If you like it cool at night but the weather is making it hard for you to get to sleep due to the hot air blowing, we have a few good ways to cut down on all that tossing and turning.

These tricks for getting to sleep during summer heat waves will get you cool enough to finally catch some z’s and leave you feeling a lot less sticky and uncomfortable morning, noon and night.

How To Prep Your Baby’s Room For Summer Heat

June 9th, 2016 - By Kweli Wright
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Even new parents quickly realize that an uncomfortable baby is an unhappy baby. In the summer when homes start to heat up, many parents let their young children sleep and run around during the day in nothing more than a diaper to keep them cool and unfussy. To help keep a nursery cool during the summer so baby sleeps well and does not spend nap time and most of the night crying, there are several steps parents can take to prep baby’s room for summer including removing excess bedding from the crib.

For starters, parents should work to make the nursery as cool as possible by blocking direct sunlight from streaming into the room.

Black It Out – If the nursery is on the west side of the home or receives direct sunlight for the majority of the day, black out curtains can help block heat transfer from windows.

Swap Screens – Another option for reducing the amount of heat coming through windows is to install specialty sunscreens on the exterior of windows. This type of screen can block up to 95% of sunlight and can be easily removed and stored in a basement or garage for winter.

Once the source of summer heat has been addressed, the next thing parents want to check in the nursery is airflow.

Lose the Stuffing – Cribs filled with teddy bears, blankets and crib bumpers might look cute and seem to create a cozy place for baby to sleep; but having all that extra fluff not only blocks airflow, it can be a suffocation risk. To keep baby feeling comforted and protected choose a crib guard that leaves space to allow air to flow freely into the crib through the rails like Wonder Bumpers.  They are soft, yet stay safely secured (even loose thin bumpers are dangerous) and mimic the natural design of the crib.  A light swaddler or sleep sack will keep baby cozy and happy. Put everything else away.

Counter Rotate – During the summer months, ceiling fans should be set to rotate counter clockwise. This pushes air straight down to cool the room. The warmer it is, the higher the speed should be.

Call A Pro – Clogged and dirty air ducts can reduce the flow of A/C into the nursery, especially if the room is far from the central unit. An HVAC company can measure airflow coming from vents in the nursery and help determine if a duct cleaning is needed or if the A/C unit needs servicing.

Spring Has Sprung: The Essential Spring Cleaning Home Checklist

April 21st, 2016 - By Kweli Wright
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Staying on top of home maintenance is very important. If you avoid it, like anything else, it will cost you time and money in the long run, and as they say: ‘an ounce of prevention is surely worth a pound of cure.’ Make these small changes and you’ll ward off large home-related mishaps. These small changes will not only make you more comfortable in your home but can also save you money in reduced energy costs.

Seasonal changes are great times to pay attention to those minute yet important details that come with home maintenance and safety whether your rent or own.

Here’s a great spring cleaning home checklist for making sure your journey into the warmer months are stress free and that your home is running in tip top shape.

  • Replace Batteries in Detectors

This is the time to check your Smoke and Carbon Monoxide detectors to ensure they are working properly. While up there be sure to replace the batteries.

  • Reverse Ceiling Fan Direction

During the warmer months you want to have your ceiling fans rotating in a counterclockwise position. This direction sucks up warm air and pushes cooler air down.

  • Flip Mattress

While some of the new mattresses don’t have springs if you have an older spring mattress it is recommended that you flip and flop your mattress every six months. After flipping, put what was once the head of the bed at the bottom to get even wear.

  • Perform AC Unit Maintenance

An ounce of prevention is truly worth a pound of cure when it comes to ensuring your AC unit doesn’t conveniently run out of freon during a heat wave. Trust me. This time of year isn’t so busy so dial up  your local tech and have him come out before things get crazy and you may find yourself hot and waiting for the repairman.

  • Replace Filters

Take this time to replace all of the filters in the house. This includes, water, AC, and air purifiers. If there is a filter anywhere in your house replace it.

  • Drain the Water Heater

Draining excess water helps the water heater to run more efficiently. The task is simple and can certainly be a DIY project, or you can call your local handyman.

  • Purge/Restock the Medicine Cabinet

Check the expiration dates and throw away those that are expired. As we enter allergy and bug season, be sure to stock up on first aid items and allergy medicines.


Simple Ways To Spring-ify Your Space

April 8th, 2016 - By Meg Butler
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Spring is here. The sun is brighter, the weather is warmer and those long winter months are finally over. It’s a time for spiritual renewal, and there’s no better way to revitalize your space and your spirit than a spring makeover. Bring in bright colors, change the decor or even revamp your wardrobe. Living in a new space is the best way to live a new you in the most productive time of year.

And you don’t have to break the bank or hire interior designers and personal decorators to do it. These simple changes for the season will transform your apartment in no time. From switching up the throw pillows to breaking out a can of paint, one weekend can take your world from the winter blahs to the spirit of spring.

So turn up Rihanna’s new album, get online and let these spring decoration inspirations turn your year around before fall rolls around again.

How To Childproof Your Home

January 28th, 2016 - By Clarissa Joan
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As a mother of two–an infant and a toddler–I often wonder, on the topic of childproofing should prioritize my children or my home? This is a joke.

Child safety is very important. I repeat child safety is VERY important.

Our children have never been hospitalized or injured to a degree of needing medical intervention. I am grateful for this grace.

Our home, however, has undergone many episodes of replacements, rearrangements, and repurposed furniture. Take for example, what use to be our dining table. As a family, we still eat breakfast, lunch, and dinner at this table.

From the perspective of our two-year old, however, our dining room table is her stage and her activity gym. Yes, our very nice cherry wood dining table, which cost hundreds of dollars, is now the domain of a 33-inch tall little person who uses it to sing Disney songs and to substitute the playground jungle gym on very cold days.

No parent likes to see hundreds and thousands of dollars worth of furniture, electronics, apparel, and walls destroyed. It is painful!

But the truth of the matter is, most of these items, sans your family heirlooms and memorabilia are replaceable.

Our children, however, are one of a kind. One child cannot be replaced by another; never, ever ever. Our children are priceless. For this reason, we have become masters at childproofing our home. We did not aspire to be experts on child safety and furniture conservation, but as heads of household who desire peace, love, and harmony in our atmosphere, childproofing was the best option.

Via the following childproofing techniques, we have been able to create the proper space for our children, us, and all of our things to co-exist happily.

Remove The Small Things: Before our daughter was born, we combed the house for items we declared to be choking hazards. Anything that could easily slip down the air passageway of a small and inquisitive being unfamiliar with the difference between food and not, we disposed of and or tucked away safely. Both are children, are what pediatricians call “mouthers,” so this was a great move on our part. A “mouther” is a child who uses the sense of taste to discover the world.

Segregation: Politically and socially speaking this is a taboo term. However, in the case of parents, infants, and homes, this is a godsend. Shut every door. Lock every cabinet. Keep all china and knives at ceiling level. Mount every peace of furniture that can tip. Your child will attempt to touch it all. The less access they have to scissors, knives, q-tips, pencils, cleaning products, hair products, make-up, small jewelry, etc. etc. Put up signs if you need to: “For Adults Only” You must deny access to all potentially hazards items or else be prepared for haphazard injury.

Create Kid Friendly Play Areas: Our children just moved into their own bedroom/playroom. What use to be my office and our storage room is now a huge gigantic children’s museum that happens to also house a crib and playpen. Prior to this we had created a 5 by 10 corner of our bedroom into discovery zone. But as children get older, they need more space to grow. What we now call “Sisterland,” is an AMAZING sanity checking environment that keeps them off of our couches and tables, out of our closets, and off my work desk. Invest in your “Sisterland” now.

Purchase Safety Equipment: We have a safety gate that guards our kitchen, cabinet latches that secure our bathroom products, and socket covers that keep them from getting electrocuted. These all work for temporary moments in time. If your child is like ours, they override these real quick. That is when the golden rule comes into play.

Be Present: The golden rule of child safety is to be present. No matter what gate, playroom, or storage closet you invest in, your children will always override it to get closer to you and do what you are doing. Those little brains are growing faster now than they ever will again in life. They are absorbing as much knowledge and information as possible. We want to keep them safe, but we also want to let them be free to explore and experience the world passionately.

Being present, communicating, watching, and engaging our children daily is the best remedy to the perils of home and society. Our presence limits them from being harmed, as well as, models for them how to avoid harm on their own as they mature.

And if all these childproofing tips fail, yell yell yell! I know. They say don’t do it. But toddlers do not listen. Yell “Noooo!” “Stop that!” “Don’t do that!” My favorite “Why would you do that?” My two-year old now says this back to me when I am apparently bothering her. Oh, the joys of motherhood.

Clarissa Joan is a spiritual life coach and editor-in-chief of The Clarissa Joan Experience. She resides in Philadelphia, Pa with her husband, their two girls, and a yorkie named Ace. Clarissa is also an expert in impact investing. She is the Communications Associate at Impact America Fund.

Stopping To Smell The Roses: What I Learned When I Became Anti-Social

January 5th, 2016 - By Deja Jones
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I lived independently in the city of Newark after graduating from college. In those years, I managed to build a life full of freedom, fun and established a name for myself in the city. Like most of us in our 20s, we reach a point of either social burnout or a financial burnout. Three months ago, I was hit with both, which forced me back to the other side of Jersey with my parents. After establishing a life where I was, I fought hard to maintain it from a distance, which meant weekend trips up north to party with friends between Newark, Jersey City, and New York City. But when funds started to dry up, I knew I had to cool it. So I slowly became a social hermit. During my period of isolation, I began to slow down and really smell the roses. In that time, I learned a lot about myself.

The Word “Friend” Shouldn’t Be Used Loosely

When I lived in Newark, my social hotline was always blinging. Monday through Sunday there was always a “wave,” whether it was a happy hour in the downtown area, coming home at the crack of dawn after a fun-filled weekend partying in New York City, or finding an art opening, brunch, dinner or house party because I knew the right people. But when the train rides became exhausting and I started to say no and decline invitations, phone calls started to come few and far between. There were no texts to check on me to see how I was handling the transition, no “Hey, how are you” messages. Nothing. That’s not to say my social circle was filled with shady people, but I have learned that outside of the social scene, we really didn’t have anything else in common that is beneficial.

Less Time Out Allows You To Focus On What’s Important

I didn’t realize how much my social life was a distraction to my work. When I had nowhere to go, I suddenly became more focused on my work. My productivity increased, and I accomplished a lot more in the day. When I became less social, I became more financially responsible and cautious of my spending. I was also able to hit the reset button and brainstorm how I was going to gain my independence again, from obtaining an affordable apartment to more writing opportunities and just knowing how I was going to do things differently.

You Need To Make Time To Rest 

Being away from all the hustle and bustle of the young, wild and free, and worrying less about trying to keep up, I found myself experiencing brighter mornings and less tiring evenings due to a night of staying in rather than staying out late after work. When you have a reputation for being a social butterfly, it can be hard at times (especially on your mind and body) to live up to that.

I Learned To Appreciate The Company Of My Family

Living in Newark, I was always too busy to catch the train to Trenton to visit my family. It was too much of a hassle for me. I missed birthdays, dinners and family gatherings, and for a time, it didn’t really bother me. I’ve become a better daughter, cousin and more to my family now that I am back home with them and focused less on my social life. I’ve even learned how to look beyond the differences in lifestyles between myself and my cousins, and invite them to hang with me sometimes, accepting them for who they are.

As I slowly transition myself back into the social scene, I have a plethora of lessons to take with me. Most important of them all, everything has a balance, but sometimes you have to play both sides of the scale in order to find that equilibrium.

When You’re Too Old For A Roommate

October 21st, 2015 - By Deja Jones
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If you want to get technical, I’ve had roommates all of my life. I went from living with my parents, then off to college where I had roommates. I’ve lived with my boyfriend, and as a single woman, I have lived in shared apartments with other women. There are some upsides to having a roommate, like splitting the cost of utilities, cable, Internet, and most importantly, rent. There’s an abundance of shared food unless you buy your absolute favorite things and make them off limits to others. There’s never a lonely moment because you always have someone to talk to, and it makes for a more lively environment. All these things sound good, but now that I’m in my mid-20s and not far from 30, I feel I am too old for roommates. Why? For the simple reason that there’s never a moment where I am truly alone. I am sharing space, which means that I have to compromise. I can’t decorate how I want, and I always have to consider someone else before I make household decisions. I’ve realized that there are a plethora of reasons why I am too old for flatmates, roomies, and/or bedfellows. Here’s why I need to ride solo.

Girls Just Wanna Have Fun

I’m young, and I am on the market for dating, as is my roommate. Still, I respect my space enough not to bring men back with me. If things don’t work out, I don’t want them to know where I live. However, some people are a bit more free than others. Imagine waking up early in the morning to make a cup of coffee or tea. You still have crust in your eyes and last night’s makeup is smeared all over your face because you were either too lazy or too tired to wash it off. You only have a T-shirt on, and as you’re making your way down the stairs to the kitchen, you see a strange man sitting on the couch staring at you. He doesn’t speak or anything, and it is the most awkward five seconds of silence ever. You hurry up and make your tea, running back in your room where you stay for the remainder of the day.

Yes, this really happened.

I mean, we’re grown, we date, it’s a part of life. But it’s also common courtesy to let your roommate know when you will have a guest over who will be occupying public spaces. It would also help so you’ll know whether to wear headphones to prevent yourself from hearing the morning delights taking place in the adjacent room. Having a roommate, you have to consider these things. It’s liberating living away from your parents, but when you have a roommate, there are still a few restrictions. Same goes for walking around in your birthday suit. Even in terms of dating and getting serious with someone, you want to be able to navigate those intimate spaces with that person, but you have to keep in mind that you aren’t the only person occupying your place of residence.

The Weakest Link

We joke about how we always have that one broke friend who always want to go out and do stuff. Well, it’s funny until they become that broke roommate who can never pay their expenses on time. And depending on whose name these bills are in, it could mean some pretty hostile situations. Again, the upside to having a roommate is supposed to be the splitting of utilities, cable, Internet and most importantly, rent. But the downside is splitting these expenses with people who are struggling financially. My landlord once told me that if for some reason you feel like you can’t afford something then you shouldn’t get it. And I know that it’s time for me to go after having to continuously get utilities and other apartment expenses put in my name. I figure if I can afford to pay my rent and pick up someone else’s slack then why not just live alone?

Pet Peeves

When having a roommate, there are just shared responsibilities that people need to be aware of. For example, washing the dishes or taking out the garbage and cleaning the public spaces are just things you should both do. I’ve learned that everyone has a different cleaning style. Some clean as they go, some pick a day or time to devote to cleaning and some just don’t clean at all. I realized I was too old for a roommate when I started to clash with one because of our different cleaning styles.

I also like having and entertaining guests, but I also love my alone time, which involves peace and quiet. I can’t always get that, and I can’t really get too mad about it because that’s what happens when you live with someone. And just as I have the freedom and choice to be quiet, my former roommate had the choice and freedom to be loud.

All in all, I could go on for days sharing nightmare stories about living with people, but these are the things that helped me realize I am too old for this s–t and better off living on my own. What did it take for you to get proactive and move out on your own? Do you have any nightmare roommate stories?



7 Ways To Organize Any Room In 15 Minutes (Yes, Really!)

June 11th, 2015 - By Rich
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While you may have already done your spring and summer cleaning, now just about weeks into the season you may notice it’s time to get a little more organized. Does company come over and you can’t find the remote? Are you feeling a little overwhelmed with the amount of clutter building? Get your abode in order with these super quick tips that will help you organize any room in just a matter of minutes. Yes, minutes, not hours!

7 Ways To Organize Any Room In 15 Minutes (Yes, Really!)

Don’t Call The Super: Home Repairs Everyone Can Do

June 4th, 2015 - By Meg Butler
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You don’t always have to call the repairman when things go awry in your home. With just a few tools and a little know-how, anyone can do these home repairs on their own.