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You Thought We Wouldn’t See: More People Embarrassed By The Kiss Cam

January 5th, 2015 - By Meg Butler
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Have you seen this video of the Ohio State fan caught at the game with her side piece? She’s not the only sports fan that’s been caught by the cam. Check out these gifs of people embarrassed by the kiss cam for the whole world to see.

Woman Exposes Her Cheating Man Online, Gives Him Printouts Of His DM Chats With Other Women For Christmas

December 30th, 2014 - By Victoria Uwumarogie
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The only thing that could have made this story even better would have been if we could see it all play out on video–and if former “To Catch A Predator” host Chris Hansen was there to help expose this cheater (“Why don’t you have a seat over there…”).

Uproxx shared the story of Cassy, a young woman who caught her boyfriend slipping by having inappropriate conversations with another woman through his direct messages on Twitter.  Cassy, who either had access to his Twitter password, or was crafty enough to somehow figure out the password and get to snooping, uncovered the messages and concocted a pretty interesting way to expose her sneaky boyfriend. Cassy took pictures of the messages and printed them out, multiple pages worth of conversations, and documented her plan via Twitter and Snapchat, saying “I don’t tolerate cheating.” From there, she wrapped the printouts in wrapping paper and gave them to her boyfriend as a Christmas gift.

Of course, he didn’t find it so clever.

Cassy (who says she’s “numb to the bs” now) posted all of her photos and shared a warning with any future lovers, because she clearly doesn’t play that:


Fellas, you’ve been warned.

Check out the photos from Cassy’s surprise for this fella below.

Cassy 1

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In The Act: Celebrities Caught Cheating

November 18th, 2014 - By Meg Butler
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We didn’t want to believe the rumors, but these celebrities caught cheating were filmed, snapped and screenshot-ed in the act.

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Usher Raymond

Usher was outed during his divorce trial when his soon-to-be-ex Tameka Raymond revealed that she caught him in bed with her bridesmaid (who was the kids’ nanny), Maya Fox Davis.

Amateur Detectives: Your Guide To The Latest Gadgets For Catching Him Cheating

November 5th, 2014 - By Meg Butler
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How far would you go to catch your man cheating? Once upon a time, you had to follow him around. But today catching him in the act is as easy as downloading an app.

Gadgets For Catching Him Cheating

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Key-Logging Software

Upload these programs onto his computer and they’ll track every keystroke he makes: porn websites, deleted e-mails to his mistress and flirty Facebook messages he sent to his old high school crush.

“He Lied To Me The Entire Time” Model Carmen Ortega Says Jason Derulo Was Cheating On Jordin With Her

October 6th, 2014 - By Veronica Wells
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Carmen Ortega Says Jason Derulo Was Cheating On Jordin With Her feat

Jason Derulo swears that he didn’t cheat on Jordin Sparks. But model, Carmen Ortega, has a different story.

Ortega told STAR Magazine that she had a one-month fling with Derulo while he was still dating Sparks.

Surprise, surprise.

Ortega said she met Derulo last summer through mutual friends at a recording studio. She claims shortly after meeting, the two quickly began an intimate relationship.

“We dated for a month. We went out in public with friends a few times, so I assumed he didn’t have a girlfriend.”

Ortega said that when she finally realized that Derulo, at least publicly, was still very much involved with Jordin, she called things off.

“I cut ties with him immediately. He tried telling me their relationship was strictly fueled by management teams. He lied to me the entire time.” 

The story is a little different than the one she told last summer when the two were first photographed together, on two separate occasions going into IHop at 3 am in the morning.

I kept going back and forth asking him ‘Are you with Jordin or are you not with Jordin?’ One day he’s like “we’re back together” the next he’d say “we’re not together.” He acted like they were on and off. With Jason I asked him about an interview where he said he and Jordin were discussing marriage and he told me, ‘It’s not even like that, we’re not that serious. I was like ‘You’re going on interviews and saying certain things’ and he was saying, ‘It’s all fake it’s just press.’

And then:

She seems like a good person and a good girl and that’s why I want nothing to do with that situation anymore because I look at it like what a piece of isht of a guy to be doing that to her for so long. She is really in love with him – I feel bad about it.

If I was in a room with Jordin, I would tell her straight up your man is not a good man for you. You are too good for him. I just feel like she’s being played really bad. Men in Hollywood, he’s not the only one, there’s a lot of them.

For someone who claimed not to be dating him, she seemed really in her feelings about a co-worker, even back then. So it makes sense that now, the full story is coming out.

Who knows who to believe with these type of shenanigans. But Jason Derulo seems like the least trustworthy person in this story.

Straight From His Mouth: The Difference Between Being Cheated On And Being Lied To

September 29th, 2014 - By Dr. J
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The Difference Between Being Cheated On And Being Lied To


I think it’s time we had a more productive conversation about cheating than the one we’ve had many times over. Most times when we talk about cheating it’s always a conversation about why men cheat. By this point, we have come up with a long list of reasons men cheat but it always comes back to the same central point: because they can. To be clear, not every man is predisposed to cheat just because he can. There are still plenty of men in relationships who don’t cheat at all.

Anyway, last week Amber Rose filed for divorce from Wiz Khalifa. (I always feel awkward typing those names because they are the stagiest of stage names, but I digress.) Surprisingly, Wiz isn’t fighting for his marriage. He’s already filed his response and is ready to move on. That’s when I said to myself, “Something’s up with this story.” And as we waited all week for details to come to the surface, eventually they started to trickle out.

Now if the rumor is true, Wiz moved out of the house weeks ago, got his own place and pretty much decided he didn’t want to be married to Amber anymore. Amber one night shows up at his new place and finds him in bed with another woman. A few days later she files for divorce citing irreconcilable differences — not adultery — but tweets that her ex-husband is a cheater.

But wait. Did Wiz really cheat? Eh, in my opinion I don’t think that’s a fair representation of the situation.

This drama got me thinking that there’s this roaming definition of cheating. After discussing this with a few guys, I think we all agreed that the definition is really up to interpretation. Can a man cheat on a woman if they’re not in an official relationship of any kind? I understand that if you’re his girlfriend or wife then any activities outside of the relationship should be considered cheating. How about when you’re friends-with-benefits, taking a break or separated? Is it still cheating?

I have to say that my personal opinion is that there is no such thing as cheating outside of a relationship. I do think there are two other things that are just as bad, lying and deceit. I think the reason women find themselves accusing men of cheating when they’re not in a relationship is because they were under the impression that their situation was exclusive. In those cases, it’s really not the cheating that bothers you; it’s the fact that he lied.

That’s why I think it’s clear to focus in on the real issues of lying and not cheating. I’m going out on a short limb here but most of the times when someone is labeled as a cheater it’s a man. Men hate this label because to them it almost always indefensible. It exists in the background of his reputation and he can rarely shake it even if it was never true. That’s not a fair representation of who he is. It’s almost akin to screenshotting a section of a conversation and posting it on Instagram when someone is in a compromising position. Anything can be misconstrued and purported as something if both sides don’t have a chance to defend themselves.

I’m not saying that women need to stop calling men out for cheating, they don’t. There are still people out here cheating on the regular and they shouldn’t be getting away with it. I’m just saying that the definition of cheating needs to be more finite and not a roaming definition based on if someone “feels” cheated on. It’s either we move towards a definition that can be relied on or people will start thinking that people who claim “cheating” are just upset and hurt.

When Side Chicks Fight Back …And Sometimes Win

September 22nd, 2014 - By Meg Butler
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Is this the year of the side chick? Once upon a time, being a mistress was a shameful thing. But when Karreuche Tran found herself on a list of notorious mistresses, she publicly stood up for her mistress status.

And Karreuche isn’t the only one. In 2014, side chicks are fighting for their rightful place and sometimes they’re winning… Let’s hope this isn’t a trend that sticks.

Other Woman I Am Not: Women Who Denied Being Mistresses

July 23rd, 2014 - By M A
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Women Who Denied Being Mistresses


Love in Hollywood is a tricky, tricky thing. As if the everyday pressures of being in a relationship weren’t hard enough, adding the craziness and drama of 24/7 tabloid coverage brings even healthy relationships to their breaking point. And let’s not forget the inevitable affair rumors. “Side chicks” and mistresses have become a staple of celebrity news. And while sometimes the rumblings are true, there are more than a few Hollywood hotties who have refuted the rumors — or refused to fess up. Here’s a look at notable celebrity women who denied being mistresses.

Let Me Downgrade Ya: Celebs Who Cheated With Someone Less Attractive Than Their Partner

June 17th, 2014 - By Julia Austin
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Men Who Cheated With Someone Less Attractive

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Not that cheating is ever justified, but when we see some of these men who cheated with someone less attractive we think, really, you were tempted by that?





‘I Caught My Boyfriend Cheating On A Sex Tape’

June 14th, 2014 - By Madame Noire
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From YourTango

Did curiosity kill the cat or the relationship?

There is no better private investigator than a woman with Internet access and a curiosity. I can let you know if your boyfriend is cheating, find the girl he dated in college, and figure out every picture your love interest has liked on Facebook in the past fortnight. Serious q: is the CIA hiring?

I do all sorts of online stalking. My typical daily activities as a single woman include:

1. Lurking my crush’s Facebook
2. Creeping his Instagram
3. Memorizing his Twitter feed
4. Creating a relationship with him in my head

What I’m trying to say is I consider online stalking to be my full time day job, and sometimes I may accidentally, unintentionally, woopsie-daisily bring these behaviors into my relationships.

It paid off though, when dating my ex-boyfriend, who for the sake of this article I will call Demetrius (because why not?).

Did curiosity or carelessness wreck this relationship? Read more on YourTango.