The Language of Love: How Miscommunication Leads to Complication

March 31st, 2011 - By Toya Sharee


1. He says: “I don’t like to go out.  How about we order in and watch a movie?”

You hear: “I’m shy and a bit anti-social, and maybe even cheap.  Let’s stay in and cuddle.”

He means: “I can’t bone you in public; it’s easier if we just stay in my house…closer to the bed.”

Because honestly, would you really have sex with him if he flat-out told you that was the main goal of the night? (Well, maybe some of you would).  Keep in mind that many guys are still getting used to the idea that females enjoy sex just as much as they do, and wouldn’t mind if they skipped all the manipulation and got straight to the point (In fact, I kind of respect that in a man).   Also pay attention to how long you’ve been in the relationship: If it’s the third time you’re seeing him, it’s more likely he spitting more game than a sports announcer, but if it’s been some time, he may just legitimately want to make it a Netflix night.

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    I love this post, but from experience, when a man says he wants space, it really means that he wants to break up but doesn’t know how to tell you. Men are pathetic. They are not honest. You need a Rosetta Stone to get the picture. Usually I just have sex with men, then pull out before any emotions surface to prevent these kinds of issues. 

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    Men are such a challenge but i still love them to pieces – well xcept the bad minded ones!!!

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    I'm gonna take a break from relationships. Hopefully, I'll run into Mr,Right for me in the near future.

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    These are all valid and funny little anecdotes. These MAY or may NOT apply to us all.