Pursuing a Hobby
If you don’t have a hobby, stop wasting your time and get one. Reality shows do not count (unless you’re in one). Responsibilities also do not count. This is why they make kids take electives in college–in the hopes that you will pursue casual interests and possibly become a more interesting person. What does this have to do with meeting a unique guy? Hobbies are pursuits of passion. You invest time and money in something that moves or soothes your soul. Your authentic self shines through. Men drawn to that light, be it weird or quirky, are likely to be more passionate about you.