Knowing When To Push For What You Need In Your Relationship
Be willing to check your partner
When you and your partner want different things, this could be a learning opportunity for him. Let’s say your partner doesn’t want to stay at your family’s house over the holidays—he’d rather get a hotel room because you sleep better there. This could be a great time to expand his perspective. Ask him if sleeping well for one weekend is worth permanently offending your parents, or making your parents feel like your partner doesn’t want to be close to them.