She doesn’t appease petty emotions
If someone is being childish, selfish or irrational, the alpha female doesn’t bend over backward to appease this person. She tells them they are being childish, selfish or irrational. She tells them how things are going to be, regardless of their immature emotions, and she demands they deal with it. In other words, if you’re dating an alpha female and are jealous that she has a male friend you don’t get to act petty or passive aggressive. You can get with the program, or get out.