Icebreakers For The Grown and Shy
The Networking Event
Networking functions can be the most intimidating events for the socially shy; and although you may have practiced your infamous ‘elevator pitch’ briefly describing who you are and what you do, these events can still be somewhat frightening.
Here are three icebreakers that can assist you in sparking up a somewhat meaningful conversation that could potentially build up your business contacts.
- Your Elevator Pitch
Your elevator pitch is a brief sentence or two describing who you are and what you do. According to Businessweek, ‘it’s a skill that every business person needs.’ The reason this is such a great icebreaker is because it serves as an introduction that immediately warrants a response. It’s a networking event, so the person you’re speaking with will usually respond with their elevator pitch. After this, you can further ask a question about their business or product. Or if your social anxiety kicks in, you can take the easy way out: ask for a business card, smile, and leave.
- ‘I Love Your…”
You can’t go wrong with complimenting. If you see someone you’re interested in sparking up a conversation with, give them a compliment on something they’re wearing (even if you’ve seen better). After this, ask an open ended question like, “What do you think of the networking event?” or “How often do you come to these events?” A conversation is sure to develop.
- When All Else Fails, Use The Weather
An icebreaker using the weather is probably the most cliché, yet one of the easiest ways, to break the ice. By simply saying ‘It’s a really nice night, huh?’ or asking ‘Is it supposed to rain all week?” is an easy conversation starter.