How bad can it really be to get carried away after a first date? It’s not like your date actually knows all of the things going on in your head (or all of the things you’re telling your friends), right? Well, yes, but your thoughts and words can affect you, too.
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If you let yourself go down a certain train of thought, or talk too much about a guy, you can set up expectations for yourself subconsciously. You’ll probably stop considering other guys much, and possibly pass up on a great one! All for what? A guy you’ve been on one date with? Statistically speaking, most first dates don’t turn into relationships; it’s a numbers game, and if you cut back on your first date numbers because one went well, you will probably lose the game. Here are signs you get too carried away after a good first date.
You cancel other dates
You had other dates you were really looking forward to, but you cancel them, because you feel, “What’s the point? I know I already really like this one guy.”