At the ripe age of forty-five, Diddy is still hollering from the rooftops that he’s not ready for marriage. Of course, that makes you wonder what this means for his longtime girlfriend Cassie Ventura, 28, who, may or may not hope to be married someday.
While the entrepreneur has made it clear that he won’t be getting married anytime soon, he did recently share during an appearance on “Watch What Happens Live” that he is willing to enter into a love contract that offers his lady financial perks. He explains:
I don’t know [if I’ll ever get married]. It’s the whole thing of; I think you have to be ready for it because it’s somebody else’s heart involved. That’s just a lot of responsibility and I don’t want to be going to court and having somebody interfere in my relationship. So I’d rather just do the “Goldie Hawn.” But I will give a contract. I will commit to a contract, a love contract.
I’m talking about where there’s some money involved too if there’re any problems. You have to have an agreement. You can’t just love somebody, take them and y’all just part.
No honestly, I just don’t think I’m ready right now [for marriage], but I’m a great boyfriend.
I mean, I can definitely respect a person who is real enough with themselves to say “I’m not ready for marriage,” as opposed to the person who makes vows just to turn around and break them. If this lifestyle works for Diddy and Cassie, who the hell am I to knock them?
What I will say, however, is that I really hope Cassie is being honest with herself in regard to this relationship and what she genuinely wants for herself.
What are your thoughts? Would you be willing to accept a “great boyfriend” with an awesome love contract as a substitute for marriage?