Weezy F Baby And Other Men Karrine “Superhead” Steffans Claimed
Christina Milian and Karrine “Superhead” Steffans have been trading barbs with each other over social media lately. Angry that the video vixen poked fun of her for trying to claim Lil Wayne on “Wendy Williams,” Milian clapped back saying no man would ever claim Steffans. Known for her many dalliances and trysts with rappers and athletes, here’s a look at some men Steffans has publicly claimed or spoken about. Did they return the favor?
Kool G Rap
Steffans was involved in a long and abusive relationship with old school rapper Kool G Rap and he would allegedly force her to perform oral sex on him for hours thus helping her earn her nickname. They met when she was just 17 years old and Steffans spoke of the abuse she suffered in great detail in her best-selling book “Confessions of a Video Vixen.” She put up with his cheating and physical violence until one day finally finding the courage to leave him with their one-year-old son in tow.
While Kool G Rap helped Steffans perfect her fellatio skills, rapper Ja Rule is responsible for giving her the nickname “Superhead.” Even though he was involved with his high school sweetheart back then, Steffans used to party with Ja Rule and during their first night together, she recited the Jadakiss line, “Got a chick named Super-head/She give super head.” That ended up being Rule’s pet name for Steffans but soon the entire rap industry would know her as Superhead.
Ja Rule wasn’t the only guy Steffans was seeing in the Murder Inc. camp. Steffans claimed she was forced to perform a sexual act on head honcho Irv Gotti. He tried to kick her off of Ja Rule’s “Between Me And You” music video set but allowed her to stay only after she pleased him. Steffans also revealed that when she was with Gotti, she was paid to be his bad girl and was passed around to entertain his friends and acquaintances.
One of the many men Irv Gotti introduced Steffans to was Bobby Brown. He was still married to Whitney Houston at the time but that didn’t stop him from acting like he was in a relationship with Steffans out in public. The two started dating in October 2002 but by April of the next year, they had called it quits. Although she said she witnessed odd and erratic behavior from Brown, she said never saw him do any drugs in front of her.
While many men have been with Steffans, Darius McCrary made her his wife. They dated on and off for two years before they exchanged vows. They were married for just a year when their union came to a rocky end. Steffans accused the “Family Matters” star of physically assaulting her on two separate occasions including choking and beating her with a belt in front of her 12-year-old son. She was granted a restraining order and the two proceeded to trash each other in the media.
Steffans has never been shy about declaring her love for Lil Wayne. They’ve been involved in an on-again, off-again relationship for years and she penned a post about her feelings for the New Orleans rapper on her blog. “He may not be all mine, he may not be the best, but he’s here even when I’m not at my best. We say things, we do things, we hurt one another, other people hurt us but they don’t matter and our wounds heal when we’re together,” she wrote. Weezy was also the inspiration behind Steffans’ book “How To Make Love To A Martian.”
Power can certainly be an aphrodisiac and it’s no secret that there are plenty of women out there who are attracted to power. That was the case with Steffans and Dr. Dre. The best-selling author spent one night with the future hip-hop billionaire and she claimed she didn’t find anything about him attractive until she started thinking about his résumé and status. “It was another example of my doing without thinking, for all the wrong reasons,” Steffans said.
We first learned of Steffans’ romance with Soulja Boy last year when the duo posted photos to social media looking coupled up. The “Crank That” rapper even called Steffans his “ride or die” but soon there was trouble in paradise and he was calling her a thot. Soulja Boy was the one bouncing back and forth between Steffans and his longtime girlfriend Nia Riley though. His fellow “Love & Hip Hop Hollywood” co-star was caught off guard when the photos began to circulate online. After breaking up with Nia, the lanky tattooed rapper was back posting photos with Steffans.
Sean “Diddy” Combs
Steffans’ time with Sean “Diddy” Combs was brief but it still ended up in her book. She met Diddy through Irv Gotti and the Bad Boy founder and CEO kicked his man-servant Fonzworth Bentley out of a guest bedroom so they could spend 15 whole minutes together. Diddy gushed that Steffans was the best he ever had while she rated him as average. Last month, Steffans raised eyebrows when she posted a photo on Instagram insinuating that she spent the night with Diddy’s oldest son Quincy.
Many romances have begun and blossomed on movie sets and things behind the scenes on “A Man Apart” was no different. Steffans played the wife to Larenz Tate’s character but she had her eye on fellow co-star Vin Diesel. The two co-stars soon became involved in a relationship and his fun yet straight-laced personality was the right counterbalance Steffans was looking for. But the relationship quickly fizzled out when the 2003 film wrapped up and Diesel moved on to another movie set.
When Steffans sat down to write “Confessions of a Video Vixen,” she spoke fondly of someone who she would only refer to as “Papa.” She was very vivid about their trysts and readers tried to figure out the real identity of Papa but Steffans was silent. That is until a few years later when she revealed that Papa was really Method Man. Considering he’s been with his wife since 2001, it’s obvious why Steffans would want to protect the “You’re All I Need” rapper.
Comedian Bill Maher insists he’ll never get married and he’s dated numerous women and starlets in Hollywood but perhaps his most head-scratching relationship was with Steffans. The pair dated back in 2007 and following their split, Steffans blabbed about their relationship to the press. “Bill wants someone he can put down in an argument, tell you how ghetto you are, how big your butt is, and that you’re an idiot,” she said to “VIBE” magazine. “That’s why you never see him with a white girl or an intellectual. I might as well have been a Muslim woman with my head wrapped, walking 10 paces behind my man.”
According to Steffans, rapper Ice-T was very good to her. She could always count on him to give her money when she needed it and he even set her up with an apartment. Steffans spoke about visiting the Cali rapper at his “pimp room,” which was furnished with oversized red velvet curtains and black leather sofas. The duo would watch adult movies together and make their own videos but after Ice-T landed a role on “Law & Order SVU,” he cut Steffans off for good.
Even Jay Z has been with Steffans, although it was just for a limousine ride. They met on the set of one of his music videos and he invited her to join him on a ride. The chauffeur-driven vehicle rode through Malibu before pulling over in an empty parking lot. Steffans wrote about performing fellatio on one of the biggest rappers in her book. “After a few moments of silence, Jay pulled out his pen*s, covered it with a condom, and placed his hand on the back of my head,” she revealed. They remained acquaintances but nothing happened between them again.
Steffans and Usher first hooked up when they were both 21 years old but when Rozonda “Chilli” Thomas came into the picture, the young R&B singer was gone. They reconnected five years later but it certainly wasn’t better the second time around. Steffans accused the “Caught Up” singer of being conceited and cocky and into playing mind games, even once spitefully offering her to his brother James. Steffans had enough when she found out he was seeing another woman.