Ask A Very Smart Brotha: He Talked To His Ex For 30 Mins, Should I Be Worried
Janet: Damon,
I don’t know if my question is a statement
I am a 47 accomplish and professional woman. I’ve been divorced over 25 years dating off and on. I recently have met and made a commitment to the love of my life. We met in February of this year, and have been dating since then and made a commitment to each other in November. I guess people are surprised because no one knew that I was dating.
He is everything a mature woman dreams of. Thoughtful, caring, loving and respectful. He says what he means and means what he says.
I guess my question is how do you deal with people who are skeptical of your relationship? Including family and friends. We are happy in love and planning our life’s together.
We have no plans to marry but just to be committed and to be life partners.
He spoils me with his love, care and attention and with nice gifts. I guess people are waiting for the shoe to drop. They said he’s too good to me.
Respectfully, JB
DY: Do these people have a reason to be skeptical, or is the hate just coming out of nowhere?
