Things You Should Know Before Dating An Older Man

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Patience Is EVERYTHING

Depending on how old the man you’re seeing is, he might have certain goals he’s trying to finish accomplishing. I know a woman who dates an older man, and he jumps from profession to profession while trying to make a career in music take off. But the guy I’m dating is focused on taking his career to the next level. He’s busy studying for a major exam that will allow him to work for whomever he wants and to make the kind of moves and money I probably won’t ever see (hey, columnists weren’t meant to be millionaires). With all that drive comes a lot of time we don’t get to share together. Early on I used to have a fit every week about what he could do to make more time for me, but at a certain point, after some compromising, you end up just trying to be supportive and patient. Besides, I wouldn’t want the finger pointed at me for having a part in keeping him from doing what he needs to do to get ahead.