Too Beautiful for Your Man to Cheat? Not So Much
1) Bad For Goose, Bad For Gander: Cheating is a cruel and sometimes devastating violation of your partner’s trust. Most persons who are cheated on and who are made aware of such are hurt by it. However, though we may have been socialized to assume that “all” men cheat (which is simply not factual), that doesn’t somehow mean that a woman’s infidelity is extra damning because she’s violating some sort of social order. I’ve heard of cheating men who have been completely destroyed by their woman’s outside dealings-why? We can’t put women on the guillotine for infidelity, then turn around and act like cheating is ‘a man being a man’. This double standard doesn’t serve anyone and just reinforces some truly antiquated attitudes that hurt a lot of people.
