10. He Has No Ambition
What makes MOST guys who are losers a loser is the fact that he has no intention of ever bettering himself. There’s always an excuse as to why he isn’t or hasn’t accomplished anything. “The man” is holding him down. He would have gone to the pros, but he “messed up his knee.” He was “bout to” go for that job, but he missed the bus. Excuses, excuses, excuses. Yes, racism and circumstances can knock a man down. But what separates a king from a caveman is how he overcomes those obstacles and rises to the challenge. Alpha males have a competitive nature, which is why they tend to gravitate towards sports, politics, war, the stock market and so on and so forth. These type of men see obstacles as challenges to overcome, not excuses for mediocrity. Stepping up to a challenge builds strength and character, and losers know nothing about that.
I don’t think these traits needed to be spelled out for most men and women, but sometimes we women need to sit down and ask ourselves what we really want in a man. What is he doing with his life? Is he disciplined? Is he educating himself? Is he proactive? What is he passionate about? It’s not about money or power, but integrity and a desire to be a better person everyday. That goes for men AND women.