It Really Is You & Not Him: 10 Reasons You Can’t Find a Good Man

10. You’re dating the same guy over and over.

If you are having the same man problems over and over, it’s probably because you’re choosing the same man, at least figuratively.  If you keep choosing the guy who is in the club every single weekend, you can’t wonder why he always wants to go out and never spend time with you.  If you keep going for “thugs” with swag, who smoke weed everyday and wait for their Social Security check, you can’t be confused about why you can’t find someone motivated with goals.  Stop being comfortable and try checking for someone who isn’t exactly your type.  You might find the best thing you never knew you needed.

Did you ever discover you were standing in your own way when it came to finding a good man?

Toya Sharee is a community health   educator and parenting education coordinator who has a  passion for helping  young women build their self-esteem and make well-informed choices about their sexual health.  She also advocates for women’s reproductive rights and blogs about  everything from beauty to love and relationships. Follow her on Twitter @TheTrueTSharee or visit her blog, Bullets and Blessings.