It Really Is You & Not Him: 10 Reasons You Can’t Find a Good Man

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9.  He’s managed to have decent relationships before and after you.

It may be hard to believe but there are exes who get along and recognize that just because that person wasn’t good for them doesn’t mean they aren’t a good person.  I always say just because he treated the last girl like….dog droppings doesn’t mean he won’t treat you like a daffodil.  But if you are the only girlfriend he’s ever had running around talking about what a jerk he is, the truth may be he was only a jerk to you.  And that may not be your fault, some people just shouldn’t date…ever.  But if you find yourself in this situation a lot, it’s time to get honest about the part you play in the problem.

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