Why Men Want You The Most When You Don’t Want To Date
They get to call the shots
Men can’t stand knowing someone is waiting for them to call or waiting to see them. It takes some of the fun away for it when they finally do call and ask a woman out: they can’t help but feel they’re doing it partially out of obligation. But a woman who doesn’t even want a relationship is not waiting for that call. So a man gets to feel that when he does call her, it is his decision. It’s not out of guilt or obligation.