Separating the Women From the Girls: Are You The Queen Of The Throne?

10. Has Class/Tact

Have you ever seen a girl acting a fool out in the street, whether arguing with her man or cursing out some stranger because they accidentally bumped into her? Of course you have. I’m sure we’ve all witnessed behavior that left us shaking our heads wondering if some folks had any home training. I’m not saying that a woman should never get angry or should be a pushover, but a queen knows that there is a time and place for everything and she handles herself appropriately at all times. She also knows how to read you the riot act without using one curse word or every raising her voice. Tact is about not always having an attitude, and choosing words and actions wisely. Class is about not going to the mall wearing pajamas and house shoes or wearing a skin-tight red leather mini skirt to a funeral. It’s about knowing the difference between keeping it real, and keeping it rude. Yes, there are some guys out there who like a hood rat chick – but those are boys, not men. If you’re looking for your king, or simply want to be the queen you were born to be, you will carry yourself like a lady at all times. As Cynthia Bailey so eloquently put it, “beauty fades, but class is forever.”