You’re Not The Boss Of Me! 9 Signs That Your Man is Way Too Controlling
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9. You No Longer Think For Yourself
Perhaps the biggest tell-tale sign that you’re in a controlling relationship is that you find you can no longer think for yourself. It’s one thing for him to help you make up your mind if you’re typically an indecisive person. But if you were once the type of woman who knew exactly what she wanted and now you find that he’s making all of your major decisions for you, you may need some help. Even if you try to make your own decisions and take control of your life, he tries to convince you that his way of thinking is better for you and you accept it – even when you know he’s wrong. Take a stand and stick up for yourself. His world doesn’t have to be YOUR world, his likes don’t have to be YOUR likes, and your happiness isn’t dependent on HIS happiness. Being in a relationship shouldn’t mean that you have to change who you are, especially when you’re already a complete and happy person. If you want to change, it should be because you want to, not because someone is trying to mold you into someone else.
