4) “Is this safe?”
Where them Jimmy Hats at? Where they at, where they at? No glove, no love in 2010. If you are sitting around trying to decided if you should bed someone or not, then they aren’t likely someone you are ready to have a child with. And if you aren’t trying to create life, I PERSONALLY urge you to skip the “raw daddy” and put on a damn rubber. Beyond the STD concern…are you safe with the person you have chosen? Have you discussed past and current sexual behavior? If someone has let it slip that they don’t usually wear condoms, but they’ll don one for you…just ponder what may come through if that condom breaks. Getting tested together for STDs won’t hurt either, you know. All sex is a risk. Minimize yours as much as you can.