3) “Does this person respect me?”
Another should-be-no-brainer. Key words: “should be“. Do you feel like this new piece cares about your pleasure? Are you being treated like a partner or someone who is going to ‘give’ them something? Was there begging or coercion involved or a natural progression towards getting physical? Do you think he or she would think twice about you outside of the bedroom? Even someone who you are only sleeping with should respect you as a human being an an equal participant in the sex that may or may not go down. If someone treats like you like nothing but a orgasm facilitator, you may want to reconsider this sex session.