5) They don’t worship their pastors and judge their men by church attendance
Many black women state that they only want a man who is “equally yoked,” which pretty much makes me a bad egg (yes, I always thought the word “yoke” had an “L” in it, which tells you how often I go to church). You really think that a man in the church is more ethical, kind and considerate than the rest of us? Give me a break. Also, some of us wonder why you put your preacher on a pedestal and expect us to do the same. If you only choose men you meet in church, you won’t have much to choose from. In fact, you might just end up sharing the pastor with other women.