Save It! The Worst Relationship Advice From Black Rom Coms

Interrogate the mess out of a man on the first date

Personally, I don’t understand why women are so hard on Steve Harvey. Sure, you shouldn’t follow some of his rules to the tee (the 90 day rule in particular) but the concepts behind them aren’t as outrageous as some of his critics would have you believe. They just seemed more like common sense to me. But to each her own. I think the issue with Steve Harvey’s book, “Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man” and subsequent movie, Think Like a Man were so problematic because people took the advice too literally. Harvey’s book tells you that you should ask a man about his long and short term goals. Great questions, you need to know what his plans are, but are those questions you should fling out on the first date? Probably not. Especially now that Steve Harvey has a best selling book and hit movie. If you start talking those long and short term goals, he already knows you subscribe to Harvey’s philosophies.