“What do you want out of life?”
Women are known to think in more broad terms, while men are more detail oriented. It’s how we are hard wired. So, while a man may subconsciously know that he wants warmth, love, adventure and creative freedom in his life, he’ll communicate that in tangible terms like, “I want to start my own tech company that grosses X amount every year and hopefully own a home of Y size by Z age.” You know you’re not passionless and superficial, but it may come off that way to her. So, ask yourself why you want those things—what feelings they’ll bring to your life. There’s your answer.