Too Close For Comfort: 7 Signs He Will Be Too Needy

Makes plans during your plans

It’s cute if a guy asks once, when the moment is right, “So, when can I see you again?” or “I’m going to this thing next week, want to be my date?” At which point you can either say yes, or you can say that you’re busy. He’s put his interest out there and you know he wants to see you again. The ball is in your court now. But a needy guy doesn’t abide by that rule. He will ask you multiple times throughout a date, “So, what about this date? Can you hang out with me then? No? Well what about this one?” It might seem charming that he wants to guarantee himself a time slot in your schedule but no self-respecting guy will push the matter. You’re not his girlfriend yet: you’re just on a first or second date. Looking over your calendars to plan your next five dates is something couples do. If a guy is trying to do this, he is trying to act like a couple already.