You think he’s over it
You haven’t heard from him in a couple of weeks, maybe you felt something was off the last time you did see him. But, you don’t want to admit that he’s over it. So, you send that text, or make that drunk call, saying you’d like to see him again, only to have him finally let you know he’s not into you, or to have him not respond at all…You know that if a guy is into you, he doesn’t just “forget” to reach out for a couple of weeks. If you’d admit that to yourself, you’d avoid that embarrassing, rock-bottom moment when you force him to say, “Sorry, I just don’t like you that way…” Yes, men should be mature enough to properly end things. But often they’re not, so you have to be mature enough to let it go.