Going After A Man: Confident…Or Crazy?
3. Showing Up Unannounced
Once you’ve started dating and you’ve been to his place a few times, make sure you only stop by when invited. Stopping through to say hi or to see what he’s up to is a sure-fire way to get yourself bounced, because he’ll think you’re spying on him. And if you ARE spying on him, stop it. Trust is the backbone of a relationship, so if you don’t trust him…leave him. But if you’re one of those people who doesn’t know how to respect healthy boundaries, the aggressive vibe will only make him feel smothered. If the relationship is new, never show up to his home or job without a clear invitation, no matter how tempted you are to pop in on him for any reason.