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Hey guys and dolls! Back with a few more tips to help you ‘fellate’ great *giggle*.

1. Pucker Up: Pucker up for love! Wrap your lips around the shaft and use the powers of your mouth to bring bedroom pleasures. Change up the amount of pressure in your pout and it will create a special sensation.

2. Tongue Twister: The top and underside of your tongue have two very different textures: the former is rougher, due to your raised taste buds and the latter is softer and smoother. Switch back and forth between the two different sides to create a subtle, yet pleasing change.

3. Go Deep: Open your mouth wide as you can, pushing your tongue all the way to the bottom of your mouth. If you feel uncomfortable, or like you are going to choke or vomit…STOP! Adjust your position. It shouldn’t feel bad for you!

4. Go Deeper: One good way to get the Going Deep action going without choking yourself is to lay facing the ceiling.

5. Be Comfortable: Don’t feel like you need to be down on your knees on a cold tile floor to get the job done! I’ve said it before and I’ll say it over and over again: your efforts to please your partner should not come at the expense of your comfort. The better YOU feel, the better you can make HIM feel.

6. Wetter Is Better: Moisture matters. Use lube. Spit. Do not run a dry, cat-like tongue on somebody. It doesn’t feel good, trust me! Flavored lubricant can work some serious wonders (more on that in an upcoming post).

7) When It’s All Done: At the end of the day, while you don’t want to ruin the moment for your partner, you must also remember that you just put a lot of work in to making this man feel good. If he can’t respect your comfort or preferences, then maybe you shouldn’t be wasting your skills on him in the future.

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