Have you ever wanted something to work out so badly that you became somewhat delusional, avoiding the signs that what you wanted wasn’t really what you needed? If you have, chances are, you aren’t the only one. Many women can agree that when it comes to relationships, we’re all guilty at one point of falling in love with the idea of a man instead of the actual person.
Maya Angelou said it best, “When someone shows you who they are, believe them,” and this is certainly true in relationships. If he says one thing but his actions prove another, believe his actions instead.
Still, for a closet hopeless romantic it’s easy to ignore the signs that show you and this individual won’t click well in the future. These signs don’t necessarily mean he’s not a good guy, just not the guy for you. In an attempt to find love, here are some of the most obvious, yet ignored signs, that say he’s not the man for you.