Evaluate the Cause of the Argument
Once you’ve had a chance to cool down, do some soul-searching to get to the REAL root of the fight. Most times what you’re arguing about isn’t really what’s bothering you – it’s a deeper issue that needs to be probed and dissected so that you can resolve the issue rather than fighting about the same thing over and over again. Repeat arguments can signal that there is something going on that is a deal breaker for the relationship, or it can simply mean that neither of you are being totally honest with each other which is hindering a complete resolution. Be brave and tell the truth. If what you uncover means that the relationship could be over, summon the strength to do what you both need to do in order to have peace. But if after discussing it honestly you find that you love each other enough to work through the conflict, this can help to eliminate this argument forever.